!! Mamma..Mamma Mia !!

Your mom’s a control freak !!

‘I got a right to tell U wat I think. M ur mother. Taking care of U has been my job for decades !”

mom's view

besh ke ader mom cm mom rory neh?!

She alwez telling me wat I shud do. Very opinionated. If it is not her way, it is not d right way. Give d same advice repeatedly n claims every right on me. It feels more control than love.

daughter's view

Now dat u r an adult, has ur relationship wif ur mother matured? Or does it seems as if the conflicts n tussles you had as kid r still repeating ?

parent-child struggles continue forever !!!!

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My dad the know it all, my mum..d worried type, becoming hysterical that I could have been killed, injured or kidnapped. Lotsa curfew..takleh kuar malam la especially.

but we can't choose our parents ! nasib memasing ler. sometimes I wish I got parents yg jenis tak amek berat pon..lantak ko ler ko nk wat ape. aku bagi duet ko pi men jauh2. hahahahahaha besh kan kan kan?

So of course i didn’t tell my parents wats goin on in my life.. ape ke nak mampos kalu ketahuan anaknyer mencintai kaum sejenis

Apa pun i sentiasa bersyukor walau kehidupan penuh dilema neh.. i try my best to look it wif positive thinking and attitude.

You’ve got ur right to live ur live the way u want to but yet our mother also had their own thinking. Dun be hungry for ur mother’s approval for everything u do. She will be not rilly understand nor appreciate the way u live ur life. Dats okay. As an adult u shudn't need her approval or her consent for everything u do.

so..wat is d solution?

As for me now.. I just respond by thanking her for her concerns, n then go about my business knowing that I am free to do exactly as I please. Selagi kita tak mulakan macam tuh..parents takan realized. They will continue be our full time maid, activities coordinator and entertaintment planner. Haishhh..tanak lah i. It is suffocating !!

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